So you are in a relationship?
Post date: 2005-01-24
How do you keep them happy and interested'
Regardless of what stage your relationship is presently in, Love Tactics can save it, make it more enjoyable, or simply take it to a higher level of satisfaction. Take your pick!! Buy the Love Tactics System today and turn your relationship from routine into true love. Once you know the secrets of Reflective Listening (Love Tactic #31), you will gain valuable insight into how your partner thinks.
The reason most people who are already in a relationship come to us for help is either because things have gotten a bit shaky for them and they are on the verge of being rejected, or else the relationship has become a bit boring and stale and is no longer satisfying to them. It is rare for someone who already has a good relationship to focus on taking it to an even higher level, though that is exactly what is possible and NEEDED!! But regardless of the motivation, and no matter what stage your relationship is presently in, Love Tactics can save it, make it more enjoyable, or simply take it to a greater level of satisfaction - take your pick!! As Chuck says "Your Relationship is Doomed to Fail" if your House of Love isn't properly built. It's up to you.
The psychology behind Love Tactics can make a bad relationship good, a good relationship great, and a great relationship even better!! That's because human beings are universally dependent upon having the same emotional needs met in order to achieve a fullness of happiness, and Love Tactics shows how to concisely satisfy those needs. And by meeting the fundamental emotional requirements of your chosen sweetheart, the One You Want becomes deeply bonded to you in the most endearing of ways!
Psychotherapists learned decades ago that, in the course of therapy, patients often fell deeply in love with them as a result of the methods they used. (The technical term for this observed phenomenon is "Transference"). Love Tactics is based on these same behavioral principles and, as a result, by using these principles you can basically improve any relationship.
The keys to making your relationship rock solid are: being attentive, using reflective listening, being supportive and non-judgmental, and not tolerating being taken for granted. By making these a consistent part of your existing relationship, you will reap emotional rewards that are often only dreamed about by most people.
Reflective listening is one of the most effective skills in creating an emotional dependency and bond for you by the One You Want, if you just learn how to do it right. The essence of it is to rephrase what you've heard the person say to you in the form of a question, inviting them to clarify if for you further than what you've already understood.
When the One You Want (or anyone, for that matter!) feels you making a sincere effort to truly understand the essence of their feelings and perceptions, they experience a sense of being valued and validated as never before. With practice on your part, it will amaze you how people respond to this, they can't help but love you! The really astounding part is that, if you become an expert at this, you will be light years ahead of your potential competitors for the affection of your loved ones. See what Chuck Woolery says about Love Tactics ...he is a firm believer as well as host and guide.
Love Tactics teaches you how to be "best friends" with your lover by eliminating judgments. People feel emotionally indebted and irresistibly drawn to those rare individuals who know how to refrain from criticism, advice, or other forms of judgment towards them. They feel safe and valued in the presence of such persons, and tend to adore them. That is how you want your life's companion to feel about you!
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