9 Tips for Making a Great First-Date Impression
Post date: 2005-10-03
Now how often have you "blown it" on a first date? C'mon be honest. Your date never called back. "But why?", you ask. Well, creating a great first impression can be tough - especially if your date has already made an "idealized" picture of what you're gonna look like before you even meet.
In this special feature, we're going to debunk a couple of myths, and share a few new ideas with you. Review the list, and try out a few of these tips on Your next date - you may be pleasantly surprised at the results! Ready to find out, intrepid dater? Here's our 9 tips, read 'em and enjoy:
9 Sizzling Tips to Help Your First Date Be a Success!
Tip #1: Ask friendly questions. Having a hard time making conversation? Before you go on the date, first review the other person's profile and then think of a few questions to ask. These will help you get to know the other person better. "Ask, don't babble."
Tip #2: What to Wear? So you've read GQ or Cosmo, still having a hard time figuring out what "look" you should have? Ladies, definitely dress conservative for the first date - you want him talking to you, not ogling your goodies. And guys, clean and simple does it - no fancy threads are needed for the first date. No tshirts, no silk - a polo shirt works great.
Tip #3: Be Upbeat. Be upbeat, smile, give the other person reassurance that you're fun to be around. And sincere. Many people complain or talk about their past. Be in the present - be pleasant. Be yourself - don't try to be what you think they want.
Tip #4: Late to the party? Being late shows disrespect and is a sure turn off. Make a good first impression by being on time. Give yourself an extra 15 minutes lead time.
Tip #5: Don't wear any cologne or perfume. Nowadays, these are a turnoff to most. Deodarant alone is fine. Try it.
Tip #6: Confidence is Sexy. How do You show confidence? Make sure to keep eye contact and a pleasant, relaxed conversation. Being sure of yourself is attractive - and your date will notice it!
Tip #7: Avoid Current Events. Avoid politics, religion, and world events like war. Your goal is to learn about the other person's values. Bringing up potential topics of disagreement is a sure way to not get a second date. Stay in neutral territory at first
Tip #8: Read their Body Language and React. Are they studying the tabletop more than you, twenty minutes into the date? Or, are they leaning forward, making more eye contact? Learn to judge when you're "blowing it" versus when you're making a good impression. React to the signals that are being sent to you.
Tip #9: Parting Shots. Ok the date's over, the check's been paid. If you want to see them again, tell them so, in a casual way - "I had a good time, thanks - hey let me know if you want to get together again." This opens up the possibility of a next date, without asking for a commitment or getting an awkward silence.
Ready for that date now? Try out these 9 Tips and let us know how it went!
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